Your wife's/Gf's past...Does it excite you??

[mirkhanus]

Guys,
I need your opinion on this. If your wife/gf was sexually active before they met you, have you ever queried them about their past? I'm not talking about Mickey Mouse stories but the explicit details (like how many bfs before, what positions/locations, freakiest thing done, etc.)

Don't get me wrong. I love my wife and I never criticize or use my wifeys past against her cos it would be very ungentlemanly but hearing her past exploits seem to excite me a lot. Sometimes while making love, I ask her to relive the scenario from her past and thereafter, I seem to cum in buckets!!!

How forthcoming would your wife/gf be in such a situation? I know there's a lot more exploits wifey is hiding from me and eventually, I would like to find out.

Opinions??

[nakamara]

at the start of a relationship i might probe here n there abit but as time pass by and my love has grown stronger, i don't really feel comfortable to be listening to such things. will feel a bit sickening if hear my gf talk about how she give bj or how her ex fucked her last time...will sian 1/2 one

[mirkhanus]

Bro,
I was a bit like that at first. Sickened. But as time goes, I know wifey loves me and what she did in her past was more due to her naive ways or curiosity.

I'm not interested in hotwifing/cuckolding but somehow (god knows why!!), it seems to excite me when she becomes descriptive as I'm making love to her.

Maybe it could be that I've been married for too long and need something to spice things up with wifey???

PS. At most times she doesn't mind talking about it (at my asking, of course) and I don't force her if she doesn't wanna talk about it.

[lancer_dar]

well bro if you wish to carry on living happily then i suggest you skip this topic with ur wife /gf,
THE MORE YOU KNOW ,THE EARLIER IT SPELLS THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP....

[mirkhanus]

Originally Posted by lancer_dar

well bro if you wish to carry on living happily then i suggest you skip this topic with ur wife /gf,
THE MORE YOU KNOW ,THE EARLIER IT SPELLS THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP....

Bro,
I know you mean well. Thanks anyhow. Fact is I'll be reaching my 12th year of marriage next month. We understand and love each other well enough to touch on this topic during our lovemaking.

I have my fetishes and she understands that we need to spice up our sex life before it becomes routine or monotonous. Furthermore, it's not like I'm hotwifing her.

Any bros out there with the same situation??

PS I've adapted not to be jealous during the process cos the fact is I married her when others failed and that she is a faithful wife.

[bully]

Originally Posted by mirkhanus

Bro,
Any bros out there with the same situation??

PS I've adapted not to be jealous during the process cos the fact is I married her when others failed and that she is a faithful wife.

Bro, me too mann.. My wife shared her past to me during our love sessions.. Really turns me on and its sure a good way of spicing up ya sex's life. Yeah, no jealous or anything like dat. She loves to hear my past too... Its excites her too. Anyway, me pm u liao.

[mirkhanus]

Originally Posted by bully

Bro, me too mann.. My wife shared her past to me during our love sessions.. Really turns me on and its sure a good way of spicing up ya sex's life. Yeah, no jealous or anything like dat. She loves to hear my past too... Its excites her too. Anyway, me pm u liao.

Bro, nice to hear someone shares the same fetish as me...

I've e-mail you for starters liao....

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by mirkhanus

Don't get me wrong. I love my wife and I never criticize or use my wifeys past against her cos it would be very ungentlemanly but hearing her past exploits seem to excite me a lot.

well, if her past sex exploits excite you, then i'm sure you'll live a happy life.

[nakamara]

Originally Posted by Castrol

well, if her past sex exploits excite you, then i'm sure you'll live a happy life.

cuz he'll be immuned to a lot of other sensitive topics right?

[mirkhanus]

Originally Posted by nakamara

cuz he'll be immuned to a lot of other sensitive topics right?

Hargh!! Hargh!!
Not immune ... Just that you know & you remember all the times you've made love to your wifey/gf so it'll be redundant to talk about it, eh?

Unless you want me to talk about the NKF issue or Middle East peace process while I'm bonking wifey........

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by nakamara

cuz he'll be immuned to a lot of other sensitive topics right?

yeah, like metallica sang; "and nothing else matters..."

[nakamara]

Originally Posted by Castrol

yeah, like metallica sang; "and nothing else matters..."

Hi darling "Am I Evil"? Lets "S & M" and i'll play the "Master of Puppets". Here's the "Seek & Destroy" "Whiplash" and out comes "The Call of Kutulu". You feel to pain and "Creeping Death" near and you "Fade to Black" soon. "Sad but True" i felt like "Hero of the Day" and did the "Devil's Dance". Soon "I Disappear" and "The Memory Remains"...

[bully]

Originally Posted by Castrol

yeah, like metallica sang; "and nothing else matters..."

Hahaha.. Bro Castrol, how abt "SAD BUT TRUE"

[bully]

Originally Posted by nakamara

Hi darling "Am I Evil"? Lets "S & M" and i'll play the "Master of Puppets". Here's the "Seek & Destroy" "Whiplash" and out comes "The Call of Kutulu". You feel to pain and "Creeping Death" near and you "Fade to Black" soon. "Sad but True" i felt like "Hero of the Day" and did the "Devil's Dance". Soon "I Disappear" and "The Memory Remains"...

Bro, "Don't Tread on Me" lei, after all my wife "Die Die My Daring" She is the "Eye of The Beholder" and "For Whom the Bell Tolls". Her past adds "Fuel" to our love making as im "Harvester of Sorrow" and thou i may hav "Low Man's lyric" and sometimes "The Struggle Within". Anyway "Mama Said" im not "My friend of Misery" and im not "Of Wolf & Man" and my wife is the only "One" i love and we both "Ride The Lighting" "Wherever i May Roam", she is never "Unforgiven" and its not like "The Thing That Should Not be" but "To Live it to Die" So lets "Turn The page" and "Welcome Home". We will make love "Until it Sleeps" while waiting for "Enter Sandman"

Metallica Rules...

[nakamara]

Originally Posted by bully

Metallica Rules...

haha...another metal/rock fan here...too bad the only songs i play on my guitar now are chinese love songs...useful for xianing meimeis ...if play rock n roll give them they sure kpkb say damn noisy